A511.1.3.RB. Module 1 - Two-Way Street

          In my more than thirty years of being a member of the workforce, I have encountered and worked with different leaders/managers with many different styles of leaderships.  I have encountered a “post-hoc” manager who definitely did not have a very clear goal or objective as to where she wanted to go or where she wanted to lead her department.  Another was this manager who was what we call a “micromanager”.  He was very used to things his own way in that he felt whenever his subordinates, like me would try to be innovative he believed that the individual was not able to understand what he was trying to accomplish.  This went on for quite some time until there was a time when under this supervisor’s management I decided not to even voice my recommendation (even when asked).  I thought it was just a waste of my time and a waste of utilization of my mind.
            In due time, I have learned how to appropriately deal with the post-hoc manager and a micromanager.  Dealing with the post-hoc manager was quite challenging at first.  Finally, I learned that as long as I addressed her with a salutation of Mrs. and her last name, she was beginning to pay attention to what my thoughts are with regard to a certain situation that may need to be addressed or resolved.  I started asking her for her thoughts on how to resolve the certain issues by asking “what do you think are my best options”?  We would then discuss the positive and negative repercussions for each option I had then, together, we would choose the best option.  From then on, Mrs. C started the process, presented and she turned out to be an excellent strategic thinker, and if I was analyzing her style correctly, she became a situational leader from a post-hoc manager.
            Situational leaders like Mrs. C, they are excellent in diagnosing a situation that they are faced with.  Once they have reached an understanding of the situation, they then make necessary adjustments to their behavior in order to appropriately respond to the given situation.  When a situational leader reaches a resolution to a situation, they communicate this to their followers in a way that is acceptable and understandable to them.  With regard to Mrs. C’s situation, she was a new leader in a new organization and it was automatic that her defense mechanism was to strengthen her team and followers.  Still today, I am very proud of having been a part of such transformation in an organization.
            Going back to work for my “micromanager” Dr. Smith, it was a bit arduous because Dr. Smith was the real meaning of an “old school” individual or leader.  Dr. Smith like other micromanagers literally required all of his leadership team to keep him posted on every single detail and the progress of our assigned projects.  There were times that he would re-write or re-phrase my entire report where my originality was totally discounted.  At times, I have asked myself, “what am I doing here?  I can’t seem to do anything right!”
            Dr. Smith has been an executive leader of the organization for more than 10 years and he had the support of the President of the organization and most especially, he had great influence with the President.  Dr. Smith’s two Assistant VPs, Directors, and Managers were to meet with him once a week to report openly on the progress of assigned tasks and projects.  At times, I would observe that not every member of the team was comfortable with the status quo including myself.  I was not comfortable being corrected right in the open along with the other division leaders, but overall, I was not comfortable being present and witness to how he embarrassed other leadership team members.
            After about 2 years of employment under Dr. Smith’s management and leadership, I came to accept the fact that it was not me who was inadequate at performing my tasks.  I have stopped defending my work and my decisions when asked and instead I was quiet during our conversation, to let him know that I was attentively listening to his directions and recommendations.  In a very respectful way, I would at times explicate my concern but in the end, would seek his guidance.
Slowly and discreetly, I tried reverse psychology on Dr. Smith.  Since he wanted to make decisions for everything, I would come to him and present at least two or more options to resolve a situation and let him decide the resolution that I will execute.  For example, we had a situation where the manager disciplined an employee in front of other team members.  The disciplined employee came to my office and made a formal complaint.  To resolve the issue, I came up with two resolutions: 1) Call the manager and serve him a verbal warning that employee discipline needs to be conducted in private and the next time he disciplines an employee in front of another employee, he will be served a written warning; or 2) Call the manager, let him know about the complaint and explain to the manager the reason behind why it is necessary to conduct discipline in private.  Once the manager understands that he needs to apologize to the employee for embarrassing her by executing discipline in public,  we can schedule a meeting with the manager and the employee so the manager can apologize to the employee for disciplining in public and acknowledge that error and it states that it will not happen again.  Dr. Smith at the time was pressed with projects from the President.  I asked him if he was comfortable with the decision that I believed was our best option.  He said, “yes”.  Slowly, Dr. Smith started soliciting my thoughts, opinions, and recommendations on certain departmental relative issues.  He became very interested in what the other team members thought pertaining to certain initiatives.
            The day that Dr. Smith said “yes” was the start of his leadership behavioral shifts.  He began adapting a task-oriented behavior, relations-oriented behavior, and change-oriented behavior.  According to Northhouse (2016), task-oriented behavior is  behavior primarily concerned with accomplishing the task in an efficient and reliable way; relations-oriented behavior is primarily concerned with increasing mutual trust, cooperation, job satisfaction and identification with the team or organization; and change-oriented behavior is primarily concerned with understanding the environment, finding innovative ways to adapt to it, and implementing major changes and strategies, products, or processes.  Dr. Smith in due time has changed his micromanagement style.  He came to accept that mutual trust is a necessity for the division’s success and accomplishing the division’s goals can only be achieved by teamwork, open dialogue and implementation of new and effective processes and strategies.
            In summary, leaders thrive due to followers and visa vi, followers thrive due to leaders.  Leaders and followers co-exist and influence each other for each others’ benefits and the organization as a whole.  Both personalities and characteristics of a leader and a follower, are very meaningful and of importance in order to establish an effective dialogue in order to achieve the desired outcomes.  Most importantly, both the leader and the follower must have the ability to analyze their own strengths and weaknesses in order to get a feel for how others in the organization see them (Northouse, 2016. p. 29).
                       
References:
Northhouse, Peter (2016). Leadership: Theory and Practice (7th ed.). Los Angeles, CA: Sage
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Williams, Terri (n.d.). Weak or Negative Styles of Leadership. Demand Media.  Retrieved from
Yukl, Gary (2012). Leadership in the organization (8th ed.). Upper Saddle River, NJ: Prentice

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