A633.7.4.RB – How Do Coaches Help?

How Do Coaches Help?
Rotondo and Schmeizer (2011) stated coaching is where a leader needs to set a work environment that permits the workforce to grow.  Coaching is not a tool to be utilized to intentionally bully a staff or act as a therapist for their employees.  They further stated that our emotions reinforce most of the human behaviors.  Human beings are hardwired to learn and understand things from the perspective, thinking actions, and behavior of the people that they encounter and observe on a daily basis (Rotondo and Schmeizer, 2011).  When we find ourselves to be more reliant and dependent on our leaders as a coach, it only means that our leaders coaching capacity is ineffective (Maccoby, 2009) and we are not learning of our own accord.  
Becoming a real leader is growing to be a strong individual/person with a strong foundation of principles, values, and ethics to have the ability to support and nurture others that are weaker than them.  The real leader focuses on becoming excellent at the things that they love to do most in their life to inspire others in doing the same. A real leader inspires and motivates their employees in taking action on their accord without creating an aura of negativity or threat in the workplace.  A true leader possesses a powerful and passionate vision of what they want to accomplish in their department, and they share those visions to their subordinate.  A real leader instills hope within their employees when things are not working right or when things seem to be failing.                   
According to Rotondo and Schmeizer (2011), it is of utmost importance that leaders ensure to have meaningful conversations with their employees.  They have also made mention of three myths on behavioral change.  The first myth is that information is enough.  I believe that possessing accurate data or information on how to be a good leader without practice or experience is enough.  I have met intelligent leaders from different organizations who have no idea how to assess and understand their employee's needs and desires.  With this situation, as an HR practitioner, I have a chance of coaching our leaders.
In the fast phased health industry, Registered Nurse Managers’ schedule is very hectic and full.  They manage at least 40 Registered Nurses on different shifts.  They are very focused on patient satisfaction and sometimes forgetting that employee satisfaction is of equal importance.  Due to the span of control issues, our consultant recommended creating new positions of Assistant Nurse Managers who will have more ability to manage a maximum of 15 Registered Nurses to strike a more meaningful conversation and avoid overwhelming stress experienced by our RNs. 
One error we made was promoting experienced RNs to ANMs who have no experience of being a leader, and we did not take the time to sit down with them individually and ask of their desire to be promoted and the future state of their careers.  In addition to, we missed developing training and development for new leaders program which was key to the success of the new leaders.  The result was a disaster.  Our turnover rate increased to 30% in just six months time of the implementation.  That was I consider lessons learned and we did immediate remediation by restructuring the reporting structure through assessment of Span of Control for every clinical department and scheduled coaching training for Managers and above.

The second myth that we were given was that emotions do not matter.  I always believed that whatever endeavor we decide to take, emotions are of utmost importance most notably for a servant leader.  During my tenure as Assistant Director for Human Resources at one of the local Universities here in Daytona Beach, we had a tenured faculty, whom I would call Dr. M who was stricken with cancer.  To make a long story short, Dr. M. had sold her house, cashed out all of her retirement funds to fund her medical expenses.  She was declared cancer-free twice but on the last one and a half year of her life, cancer came back, and this time she ran out of funds.  Our University, President at that point who I considered as a transformational and a servant leader, called my Director and me in and told us to support Dr. M. and make sure that Dr. M. receives continued medical coverage.  The Dean of Education was also advised to let Dr. M. teach whenever she feels capable and able.

The University had a self-funded health coverage which meant at the discretion of our University President, the University can approve to pay out medical claims.  Our past President supported Dr. M. without limits.  Dr. M. continued to teach while undergoing medical treatment at the expense of the University.  Dr. M. passed away in her sleep, and until today, I have always been thankful to God that He had given me the opportunity to be a part of Dr. Trudie Kibbe Reed’s leadership team. I have learned that servant leadership is connecting to members of your team gaining their trust, respect, honesty, and loyalty not only through strategic business decision-making and transparency to support your members achieve their goals and personal interest, but also through compassion and love for everyone we worked with.

The last myth given to us was that people didn’t change because they did not change hard enough.  In my line of business as human resources professional, I have come across of the difficulties that a leader could experience when joining a new team as a leader.  When positioned as Assistant Director of Human Resources, the team was lead by a director who could not lead the team with clear vision and goal.  There was no cohesiveness in the setting of goals, and the team’s role was not clarified.  The members of the HR team were not communicating openly and honestly either due to fear of retaliation or just did not care at all.  Personality conflicts within the team were very apparent, and disrespect for each other was heightened.
It was evident at that time that I was not the right person to facilitate a team building program for my team.  I wanted us to start fresh by learning together the importance of an efficient and fruitful team to serve our faculty, staff, students, and stakeholders.  I reached out to one of our Board of Trustees who was an expert in team building and a human resources expert, to coach us on how to perform and behave as a team.  She gave us a clear vision of why we were doing what we do which was building on the university’s legacy of educating the students of today and the leaders of tomorrow and what our roles were to achieve our vision and goals.  Most importantly, the focus of the team building was trust that we have each other’s back and will support each other no matter what, and we will respect each other in the midst of our diverse culture and belief.
I have learned that resolving conflict is not only a standard function of a leader in the workplace but it also of importance to act as a coach when the situation necessitates it.  I had a diverse team with a different culture, belief, and religion.  Conflict within my team was inevitable.  Defining to my staff that it is okay to agree to disagree, but we have to take personal differences outside the workplace.  We are all equal, and trust and respect for each other are significant to the success of our team.  When one cannot persuade the other to see it their way, the other has to let either the matter go or simply leave the room and discuss the matter when both are ready to listen with an open mind.  In our daily huddle, I ensure that members of my team were aware that when we work together through change as a team, there is nothing that we cannot accomplish.  Compassion, competence, and commitment to my organization and my team are what I bring to the table as a leader and a coach to my team.
References
Coutu, D., Kauffman, C., Charan, R., Peterson, D. B., Maccoby, M., Scoular, P. A., & Grant, A.
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Northhouse, P. (2015). Leadership: Theory and Practice (7th ed.). Los Angeles, CA: Sage
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Obolensky, N. (2014). Complex adaptive leadership (2nd ed.). London, UK: Gower/Ashgate.
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